Problem-Solving through Research: Our Students Aren't Recommending Our School...And What to Do About It
- Harry Bloom
- Sep 18, 2025
- 4 min read
By Dr. Harry Bloom, Founder and President, Benchmarking for Good, Inc.

We recently surveyed over 1,400 of our high school students, asking them a simple but crucial question: "How likely are you to recommend our school to other Jewish families?" The results were sobering. While we have many satisfied students, too many wouldn't enthusiastically recommend their school to others.
After analyzing the data, we discovered not just why students hesitate to recommend us, but also a clear roadmap for change. The findings reveal both concerning trends and tremendous opportunities for improvement.
The Uncomfortable Truth: We're Losing Them by Grade 11
Let's start with the most striking pattern in our data: student satisfaction follows a predictable and troubling trajectory.
Grade 9: Students arrive enthusiastic, with overall satisfaction at 3.60 out of 5
Grade 10: The honeymoon ends, dropping to 3.50
Grade 11: We hit rock bottom at 3.34 – our crisis year
Grade 12: Slight recovery to 3.45, but the damage is done
This "Grade 11 Crisis" isn't just a number – it represents hundreds of students who have lost their connection to our school at the very moment when they're forming lasting opinions about their educational experience.
The Three Factors That Matter Most
Our analysis revealed something unexpected: not all satisfaction factors are created equal when it comes to generating student recommendations.
The Big Three: What Actually Drives Recommendations
1. Do Students Enjoy Coming to School? (r = 0.52) This single factor explains 27% of whether students will recommend us. It's not about academic rigor or college preparation – it's about the daily experience of being here. When we examined Grade 12 students specifically, this correlation jumped to 0.59, meaning nearly 60% of seniors' recommendations depend on whether they simply enjoy being at school.
2. Do They Feel They Belong? (r = 0.44) Sense of belonging explains another 20% of recommendation likelihood. This peaks in Grade 10, where it becomes the #1 predictor. Students who feel like outsiders don't just suffer silently – they actively discourage others from enrolling.
3. How's the Administrative Environment? (r = 0.42) The relationship between students and administrators explains 17% of recommendations. Most alarming: this score plummets from 3.69 in Grade 9 to 3.19 in Grade 11 – the sharpest decline of any factor we measured.
Why Grade 11 Is Our Achilles' Heel
The data reveals a perfect storm hitting our juniors:
Administrative relationships crater (down 0.5 points from Grade 9)
Lesson engagement hits bottom (3.07 out of 5)
Learning from feedback drops below 3.0 – the only factor to fall below the midpoint
School enjoyment reaches its nadir (3.39 vs. 3.68 for freshmen)
What's happening? Interviews suggest several factors:
College pressure intensifies without adequate support
Administrative focus shifts to seniors
Social dynamics become more entrenched and exclusive
The curriculum feels disconnected from their evolving interests
The Hidden Cost of Unhappy Students
When students don't recommend our school, the impact ripples far beyond enrollment numbers:
Recruitment costs increase as we can't rely on word-of-mouth
Community reputation suffers in tight-knit Jewish communities
Sibling enrollment drops when older students discourage younger ones
Teacher morale declines as they sense student dissatisfaction
Donor confidence wavers when their children aren't enthusiastic advocates
A Data-Driven Action Plan: Four Changes We Must Make
1. Make School Enjoyable Again (Priority #1)
The Data: School enjoyment alone predicts recommendations better than all academic factors combined.
Action Steps:
Audit what students find stressful vs. energizing
Create more unstructured social time
Redesign spaces for student comfort, not just function
Celebrate small wins, not just academic achievements
Institute "Joy Fridays" with reduced homework and enrichment activities
Success Metric: Increase "Enjoy School" score from 3.51 to 4.0 within one year
2. Emergency Intervention for Grade 11
The Data: Grade 11 shows the lowest satisfaction across nearly every metric.
Action Steps:
Assign dedicated junior class dean focused solely on Grade 11 wellbeing
Create junior-specific stress reduction programs
Implement "Junior Journey" mentorship connecting 11th graders with recent alumni
Reduce academic load during peak periods
Host monthly "Administration & Answers" sessions exclusively for juniors
Success Metric: Close the Grade 11 satisfaction gap by 50% within one semester
3. Rebuild the Administrative Relationship
The Data: Administrative environment scores drop 0.5 points from Grade 9 to 11.
Action Steps:
Require administrators to have weekly informal interactions with students
Create "Administration-Free Zones" where students feel autonomous
Train administrators in adolescent psychology and empathetic communication
Institute student advisory councils with real decision-making power
Make administrative accessibility a requirement, not an afterthought
Success Metric: Achieve 3.5+ administrative environment score across all grades
4. Foster Belonging Through Structure, Not Chance
Action Steps:
Implement systems that create smaller communities within the school
Mandate inclusive lunch policies (no eating alone)
Create interest-based clubs that cross grade levels
Train teachers to spot and support isolated students
Celebrate diverse achievements beyond academics
Success Metric: Reduce "neither/unsure" responses on belonging by 40%
What Success Looks Like: Measurable Outcomes
If we implement these changes effectively, here's what we should see within 18 months:
Net Promoter Score increases from current level to 40+
Grade 11 satisfaction rises from 3.34 to at least 3.50
"Very Likely" to recommend increases from current ~56% to 70%
School enjoyment scores reach 4.0+ for at least two grade levels
Application inquiries increase through improved word-of-mouth
The Competitive Reality We Can't Ignore
Other competing day schools are already addressing these issues. They're creating joyful learning environments, supporting stressed juniors, and building genuine administrative relationships with students. Every month we delay action, we lose prospective families to schools that understand what really matters to students.
A Call to Action: The Time is Now
The data is clear, and the path forward is evident. Our students have told us exactly what would make them proud advocates for our school. They're not asking for easier academics or lower standards. They're asking for:
A school they enjoy attending
A place where they belong
Administrators who create supportive environments
Special attention during their most challenging year
The question isn't whether we can afford to make these changes. The question is whether we can afford not to.
Benchmarking for Good Can Help
Our no cost research grants can help your school learn about the strengths and weaknesses of its student advocacy and define a data-driven pathway to predictable improvement. To investigate the possibility of a research grant contact Dr. Harry Bloom at harrybloom@benchmarkingforgood.org
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